--So we reached our decisions simultaneously, and apart, and if I knew that Court was fighting a battle, did he, too, sense mine? Did it have anything to do with his coming back to life again? For he is here, I am no longer living with a marble image. And I will never know why. Court being Court I can never ask him why; we wrestled with our problems alone and we must live alone with the answers. And is it part of a marriage, part of being a human being, that we must always reach our decisions alone?. Madeleine LEngle
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What can we learn from this quote? That people who strive to be the best at something often find themselves fighting an inner battle. When Court and Gwendolyn reached their decision, they were not alone in their struggle. They understood that there were other people who shared the same struggle, and they knew that there were many battles ahead of them. However, they also knew that if they wanted to win, they would have to fight those battles alone. Only by fighting those battles, only by understanding that there is a battle raging around them, can a person ever hope to win.

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